“Man is a storytelling animal.”
Joseph Campbell after decades of research, found a narrative, a common thread in the stories told by every culture across every continent in the world.
The Hero’s Journey.
There are twelve stages but here is my abridged version.
In short, the hero answers a call to adventure after first refusing to do so due to fear, feelings of unworthiness, or because he was just able to score tickets to Hamilton.
Shenanigans ensue.
There are mentors and ogres and even some magic. Parking spots appear. Deadlines are met.
Then it all falls to shit and he’s convinced he’s gonna die.
After crawling around on his hands and knees, bawling like a little baby, he finally, finally, pulls up his big-boy pants and finds redemption. He realizes that HE was the only obstacle standing in the way of his own success.
He takes a shower, shaves, downs a cold brewski and gathers around anyone who will listen—to tell his fuckin’ story.
“Okay”, he says, leaning forward and lowering his voice you know, for dramatic effect. “I’ve gotta tell ya about this thing that happened to me.” And we all lean in closer to listen.
And you know why? Because EVERYONE can relate!
Because we’ve all been there and we’re dyin’ to compare notes.
“Oh, man. You too?” we say with a knowing nod of the head and maybe even a slap on the back.
Since the beginning of time, we tell our stories because want to help others. We crave connection. We want to let people know that they’re not alone in their seat-of-the-pants journey around this third planet from the Sun.
It’s why Joseph Campbell did it. It’s why Harry Potter, Luke Skywalker, and Jason Silva do it.
And it’s most certainly why I show up here every day.
What story are you dying to tell?
Love you,
Carry on,
xox
